LoVe To Me ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ An Eternal Emotion

LoVe To Me......

Love is the most fulfilling experience I have ever had (work comes right behind it). I grew into a better person. They say, love is blind. Why judge love? Love is just another emotion, however different it might be. Its the expectation that brings despair and pain. Its not love that does so. If I have some expectations out of the person I love, that makes my love conditional. And conditional love, sooner or later, does bring pain because those expectations could change with time or the person I love might not be able to come upto my expectations. Unconditional true love can never leave a wound, it might hurt a little from time to time but that is different from the pain I am talking about. Its extremely hard to grow so high and go beyond the layer of expectations. Beyond that layer, its just beautiful, pure and the most pious thing ever, much more than the holy books we mug up. How I wish that were possible among all of us!

Love is unfortunately misunderstood as the feeling a person gets when in company of the person one thinks one loves e.g. he makes me feel like the prettiest woman on earth, she can go to any length for me, i feel comfortable in his/her presence. In all these instances, its not about the other person, its about myself, its about I. But Love is not at all about I/myself. Its only about the other person. Whoever finds love beautiful has experienced this stage. The reason being that its selfless, you go beyond yourself, you do something for the other person without thinking about it. Whenever one does things for others without expectation, without fear of results, one touches this height called love...

i always see me fighting with queries i try to ask me several things and i end up getting confused .. this crossed me today when i was chatting with a dear friend of mine babur and we were discussing abt the age factor .. shuld really a guy be older to a girl ???? i gave him an example i saw on newspaper some time back where a lady who is double of the age of the guy got married and became a victum of ur society she got imprisoned cause she was in love with a minor... does it matter who u love when u really are in love.. isnt it just a mental block wht we have created ,... why shuld a girl be young ??? how does it make a difference??? is mental matching not important??? is satisfaction of soul of one valuing others feeling play no role????.. is it just the age and the status wht matters??? when i look at me i see me again in the same circle am i not a part of it .. dont i at times think of such things

At times i want to blind fold me to this world what is full of so not satisfying arrguments...
i wish this never ending customes barriers and mind blocks come to a hault and we open our hearts to a new us a new world...